Love

Lets talk about love. Have you ever been in love? I know you have. Have you ever been in a relationship? I know majority of you do and minority of you don't. What about love anyways? What is so good about it? What is so pure about it? Why people search for love? Why people wanna be in love? 

My answer is: 
Humans are not perfect and since god created 2 different sex which is male and female we both are attracted to each other. What we seek in them is what we don't have in our self. We are not perfect so by falling in love with someone we tend to feel complete. Get what I mean? That's why heard people say something like you complete my life. You complete me. 
So why some of the people choose to not be in love? 

Well, maybe they already feel perfect that in some point they don't need or don't want to depend on others. They feel by being in love they will be screwed not able to live a happy life because maybe their partners will weigh them down. Some people choose not to be in love is because they think if they have someone who love them, their freedom is at risk. They can't go out with certain someone cause their partners will get jealous so they tend to think having a boyfriend of a girlfriend is a problem. Some think they don't want to get hurt. 

Then again this reason is just for someone who is coward and never  dare to take chances in their life.

So why people who experience heartbroken continuously finding a boyfriend or girlfriend? 
Because they need a person to be there with them every step of the way to make them feel supported. Because they need a friend who they can really trust to share their dirty secret. Because they need to be reminded how many people care of him or her to continue their life.

Why certain relationship ended? 
It's because we forget how much we love them, how much they mean to you in your life. When the relationship about to end. You can never think something like this until the person is really gone disappear from your life.Sometimes some relationship ended because their trust is broken. Why is it broken? Because we don't feel special like we used too with our partners and we tend to find someone else so we can feel special again.

TRUE LOVE? 
I wonder myself too if true love exist? Maybe it does. How do we find it? True love happens when we found someone who can tolerate with our flaws. True love happens when we understand each other and we try our best to make them happy. We tend to feel frustrated when we can't make them happy because we know when they smile it means everything to us. You can feel the unicorns, flowery effects and stars shining all around us as if we won the lottery ticket. AND True love happens when 2 people continue to fight and move on when they encounter storms along their relationship. No one will give up on each other. You needed more than just love to love them. You need faith, trust and understanding towards one another. It's not easy but I'm sure we can find true love if we believe in it.